1. The act of sharing decades of your life with one person lends itself to repetition. If you aren’t careful, repetition becomes routine, routines become ruts, and then, for the terminally uncommunicative, ruts dig themselves so deep that they become the sort of soul-sucking bottomless trench in which Kay and Arnold, the married couple played by Meryl Streep and Tommy Lee Jones in Hope Springs, find themselves.

    — Movie Review - ‘Hope Springs’ - A Marriage Passes From Routine To Rut To Therapy : NPR